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Sonja Lyubomirsky says gratitude texting increased connection more than private writing or social-media posting

By Egleze Editorial Desk · Published October 1, 2026 · Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee · How To Find True Happiness (What 36 Years of Research Reveals) | Sonja Lyubomirsky
Sonja Lyubomirsky says gratitude texting increased connection more than private writing or social-media posting
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"We did another study where we had people either write to themselves gratitude or text it to another person or express it on social media because we thought that might be interesting comparison. We actually found that all of those conditions uh were associated with more happiness. But only one of those three people felt more connected."

Sonja Lyubomirsky says her team compared expressing gratitude by writing privately, texting another person, or posting on social media. She reports that all three approaches were associated with greater happiness, but that increased feelings of connection appeared only in the one-to-one texting condition.

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Sonja Lyubomirsky · guest
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How To Find True Happiness (What 36 Years of Research Reveals) | Sonja Lyubomirsky
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