Psychology

Dr Gabor Maté says child anxiety and medication rise reflects society

Name: Dr Gabor Maté says child anxiety and medication rise reflects society
Uploaded: 2026-07-25T15:46:00+00:00
Description: Dr Gabor Maté argues that modern environments are harmful to healthy child development and links this to rising anxiety, ADHD, depression, childhood suicide and psychiatric medication use. He says the problem lies less with parents’ intentions and more with the social conditions in which parenting happens.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty · Trauma Doctor: If You Feel Lonely All The Time, Watch This | Dr. Gabor Maté · July 25, 2026

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Trauma Doctor: If You Feel Lonely All The Time, Watch This | Dr. Gabor Maté

"No wonder we have so many children in trouble with anxiety and ADHD and then depression and the rate of childhood suicide is going up and uh the number of kids being medicated with heavy duty medications, multiplicity of medications is going up. Why? Because the conditions for healthy development are less and less available to them."

Dr Gabor Maté argues that modern environments are harmful to healthy child development and links this to rising anxiety, ADHD, depression, childhood suicide and psychiatric medication use. He says the problem lies less with parents’ intentions and more with the social conditions in which parenting happens.

About this episode

Jay Shetty interviews trauma physician and author Dr Gabor Maté about how he defines trauma, healing, and loneliness. Maté distinguishes trauma from stressful or painful events, describing it instead as a “psychic wound” that can remain dormant and later be “triggered”; he also argues that time alone does not heal trauma without active work. He defines healing as “wholeness”, describing trauma as a disconnection from self, emotions, and the body, and says people can be cured without healing, or healed without being cured.

Maté outlines childhood conditions he says shape later coping: beyond obvious abuse and household conflict, he argues children are harmed when core developmental needs are not met, including unconditional acceptance, freedom to feel emotions, and free imaginative play. He claims modern society increasingly deprives children of these needs—citing, without providing data, rising anxiety, ADHD, depression, childhood suicide, and increased use of multiple medications.

The conversation turns to adult coping and addiction, which Maté frames as attempts to escape pain, and to loneliness, which he describes as an emotionally charged perception distinct from being physically alone. He argues social isolation is increasing and links it to materialistic, individualistic cultural values and the sidelining of elders. Maté also discusses spirituality as a sense of connection beyond the ego, and closes with personal reflections on authenticity, purpose, and resistance to coercion.

Key takeaways

Maté defines trauma as an internal “wound” rather than the external event, and says it can be healed later in life.
He argues “time by itself does not heal” unhealed trauma, which can resurface when triggered.
Maté defines healing as “wholeness” and says cure and healing are not the same thing.
He says children can be wounded by unmet developmental needs, including emotional freedom and free play, not only by overt abuse.
He claims child mental-health problems and medication use are rising because conditions for healthy development are worsening.
Maté argues loneliness and isolation are increasing and ties the trend to individualism and materialistic social values.
He describes addiction as an escape from pain and says people can develop different coping mechanisms under similar childhood stress.