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Cancer survivor who lost son to murder says forgiveness is for mental health

By Egleze Editorial Desk · Published July 7, 2026 · Charlie Kirk Show · Austin Metcalf's Father's Message to Erika Kirk As Pre-Trial Begins Today
Cancer survivor who lost son to murder says forgiveness is for mental health
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Austin Metcalf's Father's Message to Erika Kirk As Pre-Trial Begins Today

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"People don't understand forgiveness. Forgiveness is for me so I don't carry hate, anger, revenge inside of me. You have to let that go and rely on your faith because it says vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord. For your mental health, you really need to learn how to let that go so you don't carry it around so it won't eat you up like cancer."

Jeff Metcalf, a stage four cancer survivor whose son was murdered, explains why he publicly forgave his son's killer despite receiving backlash. He draws parallels between his cancer battle and grief, arguing that forgiveness is a personal mental health decision to prevent bitterness from consuming him. His comments come as he advises Erica Hamlett, who similarly expressed forgiveness in court for her husband Charlie Kirk's accused killer.

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Austin Metcalf's Father's Message to Erika Kirk As Pre-Trial Begins Today
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