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Sheryl Underwood says Tony Hinchcliffe warned her he would joke about her husband's suicide at Kevin Hart Roast

Flagrant · Sheryl Underwood on Tony Hinchcliffe Jokes, Roast Reaction, & Genius of Bernie Mac · July 1, 2026
Sheryl Underwood says Tony Hinchcliffe warned her he would joke about her husband's suicide at Kevin Hart Roast
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Sheryl Underwood on Tony Hinchcliffe Jokes, Roast Reaction, & Genius of Bernie Mac
"Tony Hinchcliffe walks up to me. He said, I'm Tony Hinchcliffe. I said, I know. And I said, how you coming? He said, I'm coming, your husband suicide and you being raped. And I said— he said, well, what are you thinking? I said, it better be funny."
At the pre-Roast brunch, Hinchcliffe approached Underwood and disclosed he planned to target her deceased husband's suicide and a past sexual assault. Underwood told him the jokes better be funny or she would retaliate, revealing the behind-the-scenes negotiations that happen at high-profile comedy roasts.

About this episode

Comedian Sheryl Underwood joins the Flagrant podcast in a wide-ranging conversation that covers her explosive performance at the Kevin Hart Roast on Netflix, her Air Force service, and her decades-long comedy career. Underwood reveals that Tony Hinchcliffe warned her before the roast that he planned to joke about her husband's suicide and sexual assault, to which she responded that the jokes better be funny. She also discloses that she was praying and improvising on stage during the roast, sitting next to Hinchcliffe with paper and pen, writing new material in real time. The conversation explores Underwood's military background, including a shocking moment at Yokosuka Naval Base in Japan where an admiral told her the military couldn't protect her from sailors who had been at sea for 40 days and were worked up by her sexual comedy material. Underwood discusses being labeled a homophobe by GLAAD for a joke comparing male anatomy to Secret Deodorant, and shares intimate stories about being mentored by Bernie Mac in Chicago's comedy scene, where Mac was known by his nickname Blue. Throughout the episode, Underwood addresses criticism that she sold out by participating in the roast, arguing instead that she defended Black culture while creating opportunities for other comedians. She emphasizes her belief that all relationships are transactions, discusses her conservative political views as a Republican, and explains her philosophy that she's never the breadwinner in relationships regardless of her income. The conversation touches on comedy economics, the need for more content creation by female comics, and Underwood's vision for bringing variety show entertainment back to television through her Great American Talent Search tour.

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