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Self-Compassion Studies Show Supportive Self-Talk Beats Self-Criticism in Breakup Recovery

By Egleze Editorial Desk · Published June 27, 2026 · On Purpose with Jay Shetty · If You Can't Stop Thinking About Your Ex, Do This (The Path To Real Closure)
Self-Compassion Studies Show Supportive Self-Talk Beats Self-Criticism in Breakup Recovery
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
If You Can't Stop Thinking About Your Ex, Do This (The Path To Real Closure)

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"Psychologists studying self-compassion have found that people who practice being supportive toward oneself when experiencing suffering tend to recover more resiliently than people who approach themselves with harsh self-criticism."

The speaker cites psychological research demonstrating that self-compassionate individuals recover from breakups more effectively than those who engage in self-criticism. This evidence-based finding challenges the cultural tendency toward harsh self-judgment during heartbreak and suggests a concrete behavioral intervention for faster emotional recovery.

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If You Can't Stop Thinking About Your Ex, Do This (The Path To Real Closure)
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