Psychology
Dating Coach Reveals Narcissists Identifiable by Dead Eyes and Lack of Soul
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Sara Al Madani: Stop Falling for “Potential” (Look for THIS Instead So You Don’t Waste Months on the Wrong Person)
What was said
"Looking into a narcissist's eyes, it's like looking at NPCs. I feel like they're not human. I feel like they're NPCs. I feel like they're just bodies put on earth to make the experience harder so you can learn more. But they're not real. There's no soul inside of them. There's no empathy. There's no soul. There's nothing. Even their brain scans are different."
Sarah Al-Madhani, entrepreneur and dating coach, shared her controversial theory that narcissists are like non-player characters in a video game—bodies without souls placed on Earth as obstacles for growth. She claims she can identify them immediately by their eyes, describing them as having a dead, soulless quality. This unconventional view frames toxic people not as fully human but as part of a larger experiential test.
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- Programme
- On Purpose with Jay Shetty
- Episode
- Sara Al Madani: Stop Falling for “Potential” (Look for THIS Instead So You Don’t Waste Months on the Wrong Person)
- Clip time
- 26:41
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