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Recon Marine Details Controversial Rules of Engagement That Led to Friend's Death

Shawn Ryan Show · #305 AJ Pasciuti - Marine Scout Sniper on Hunting Juba, the Deadliest Enemy Sniper in Iraq · May 18, 2026
Recon Marine Details Controversial Rules of Engagement That Led to Friend's Death
Shawn Ryan Show
Shawn Ryan Show
#305 AJ Pasciuti - Marine Scout Sniper on Hunting Juba, the Deadliest Enemy Sniper in Iraq
"Matt tried to declare something called an imminent tick, like, we need as many air assets as right now. We are not in contact right now, but we are about to be. But the challenge was that had to go through our higher command, and the higher command changed the priority of that imminent TIC."
AJ Pashutti described how his best friend, Staff Sergeant Matt Ingham, was killed in Afghanistan in January 2010 after restrictive rules of engagement prevented him from engaging 40-50 Taliban fighters moving into position. Ingham couldn't get clearance to fire on enemy fighters moving in pairs without visible weapons, and air support was denied when categorization of his 'imminent troops in contact' call was downgraded, forcing Harriers off station to refuel just as the Taliban attacked.

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In this episode of The Sean Ryan Show, host Sean Ryan interviews former Marine Scout Sniper and Reconnaissance Marine AJ Pashutti about his 21-year career spanning multiple combat deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan. Pashutti opens by discussing his new book 'Dark Horse,' describing it as a love letter to the people who shaped his military journey rather than a self-aggrandizing memoir. The son of immigrants who grew up in poverty in Northern California, Pashutti enlisted after 9/11 despite having no military background or family tradition of service. He deployed to Iraq three times, including the 2003 invasion and the brutal Battle of Fallujah in 2004, where he served as a probationary sniper. His most significant accomplishment came in June 2006 when he killed the enemy sniper known as Juba, who had been terrorizing U.S. forces using an M40A1 rifle captured from four killed Marines in 2004. Pashutti spotted a Sony Handycam in a vehicle near an observation post and engaged after a tense standoff, later discovering the rifle bore American ammunition and serial numbers. He insisted the rifle be displayed at the Marine Corps Museum under the name of the original owner, Corporal Tommy Parker, rather than his own. The conversation takes a darker turn as Pashutti recounts killing two Iraqi civilians he mistook for IED emplacers, an incident he describes as his deepest regret despite being within rules of engagement. In Afghanistan, Pashutti lost his best friend and fiercest rival, Staff Sergeant Matt Ingham, when restrictive ROE prevented Ingham from engaging 40-50 Taliban fighters who subsequently ambushed and killed him and two other Marines in January 2010. Pashutti details the impossible choice he faced that day between abandoning his position to help Ingham or staying to protect an infantry assault. Throughout, he emphasizes the bond between warfighters and criticizes politicians who send troops into ambiguous conflicts without clear objectives, while maintaining deep reverence for the 'grunts' and riflemen who bear the heaviest burden of war.

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