Elon Musk Told Struggling Entrepreneurs They Shouldn't Need Words of Encouragement
"Somebody in the audience asked him, what words of encouragement would you give to struggling entrepreneurs? Elon Musk said, 'None, because if you need words of encouragement, you shouldn't be starting your business.'"
About this episode
On this episode of the Ultimate Human Podcast, host Gary Brecka, a human biologist and former mortality expert, sits down with Mark Manson, bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, which has sold over 20 million copies. The conversation centers on the psychological dimensions of human performance often overlooked in the biohacking world—mental health, relationships, purpose, and radical self-honesty. Manson opened with a striking revelation: after achieving global success with his book, he fell into severe depression within weeks, a phenomenon he calls altitude sickness, where rapid achievement leaves people without direction or hope. The discussion moved to anxiety, which Manson defined as a crisis of hope endemic to a society overexposed to problems and unable to identify what's worth pursuing. Both men critiqued the longevity and biohacking industries for ignoring the single most predictive factor of wellbeing: relationship quality. Manson cited research showing that genetics account for 60% of baseline happiness and that happy marriages accelerate wound healing while depression doubles heart disease risk. The second half explored practical frameworks for self-awareness, including Manson's concept of radical self-honesty—the practice of questioning beliefs about oneself and trying on alternative narratives to uncover blind spots. He emphasized that people would rather be right than happy, often unconsciously sabotaging themselves to meet low expectations. Manson also addressed purpose, arguing it emerges at the intersection of unique personal gifts and making the world better, not as a sudden discovery but as something cultivated over decades. The episode closed with advice for entrepreneurs and women struggling with people-pleasing, urging listeners to ask what they're willing to be disliked for—a measure of true conviction. Throughout, Brecka and Manson drew connections between emotional states, stress physiology, and chronic disease, reframing mental health as foundational to physical longevity.
Key takeaways
- Manson disclosed falling into severe depression within weeks of his book selling 20 million copies, calling rapid success altitude sickness.
- Genetics account for roughly 60% of baseline happiness, according to research Manson cited, undermining much self-help industry messaging.
- Anxiety was framed as a crisis of hope, with modern society unable to identify positive goals due to overexposure to global problems.
- Relationship quality is the number one predictor of both psychological and physical health, yet biohackers largely ignore it because it's unmeasurable.
- Manson relayed Elon Musk's 15-year-old advice that struggling entrepreneurs shouldn't need words of encouragement or they lack sufficient conviction.
- Purpose develops at the intersection of unique personal gifts and making the world better, not as a sudden discovery but over decades.
- Radical self-honesty involves questioning assumptions about oneself and trying on alternative beliefs to expose blind spots and reduce psychological stress.