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Stop Making Excuses: How to Change Your Life Right Now

The Mel Robbins Podcast · 7 September 2026 · 1h 10m · 1 Egleze moment

What happened in this episode?

Mel Robbins interviews entrepreneur and content creator Gary Vaynerchuk in an episode centred on personal accountability, fear, and the role of media consumption in shaping behaviour. Vaynerchuk argues that many people stay stuck by blaming parents, partners, bosses, or circumstances, and that progress starts with accepting responsibility for “what do you do next”. He repeatedly urges action over rumination, including seeking therapy rather than using consumer spending to mask distress.

A recurring theme is information diet: Vaynerchuk tells listeners to curate their social-media feeds deliberately, including using “not interested” functions to reduce political or negative content, and he claims “the algorithm exposed you” rather than changed you. Robbins and Vaynerchuk discuss jealousy and comparison, advocating gratitude and humility as practical counterweights.

The conversation turns to community-building online: Vaynerchuk encourages listeners to use comment sections to form friendships and supportive networks when their offline environment is discouraging. He also recommends volunteering time in retirement homes as a way to gain perspective and reduce regret.

On work and ambition, Vaynerchuk says his main goal is “peace of mind” rather than status, and argues that some people would be happier earning less and simplifying their lives. He also recommends jobseekers publish content on LinkedIn to build opportunities and optionality.

What are the key points?

Vaynerchuk says personal change becomes possible when people stop outsourcing blame and take responsibility for next actions.
He advocates actively curating social-media feeds and claims “the algorithm exposed you” rather than caused your mindset.
He argues material status-seeking often masks insecurity, and suggests therapy as a better investment than luxury consumption.
He urges gratitude, humility and kindness as practical tools to counter envy and resentment.
He recommends building supportive community by interacting with others in comment threads and moving those connections into real friendships.
He proposes volunteering in retirement homes to reduce regret and gain perspective on what matters.
For jobseekers, he recommends making content on LinkedIn to create “optionality” and attract opportunities.

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Gary Vaynerchuk

Which topics are covered?

Politics Society

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Programme: The Mel Robbins Podcast
Published: 7 September 2026
Duration: 1h 10m
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Gary Vaynerchuk argues politicians, bosses and parents encourage dependence that undermines personal accountability

Gary Vaynerchuk · at 59:29 · Attributed speaker claim

But it starts with this is on me. And this is where the politicians have been brilliant. This is where the bosses have been brilliant. And this is where the parents have been brilliant. They've weaponized and manipulated their subjects into thinking they can help them.

Gary Vaynerchuk argues that change starts with individuals accepting “this is on me”. He then claims that politicians, employers and parents have “weaponized and manipulated” people into believing those authorities can “help” them, which he suggests discourages people from taking action for themselves.

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